Questions & Answers   My wife and I love ballroom dancing and I would like my seventeen years old daughter to learn ballroom dancing, too. The problem is that we cannot find a partner for her. Do you have openings for private classes? If the only reason for your daughter to take private lessons is her lack of a partner, please consider the option of being her partner yourself and joining a group class. From my experience, it is beneficial for both the parent and the child to dance as a couple, and I believe that teenagers do best in group classes. I have also had excellent results in situations in which both parents danced as a couple and the child danced in the same class with a partner of the same age or a little older.   Can I buy a gift certificate for your school? Soon we will have our wedding anniversary, and I want to prepare a surprise for my wife. You are welcome to pay for the dance course and have a nice card with the words "Gift Certificate" on it and a generous space inside for writing your own text. However, you will not be able to come to my school any time you want and start taking classes. You have to reserve a space for a particular course and will be able to use the card only for that course.   Do you have groups for children? I do not have special groups for children. Teenagers are welcome to be in my regular classes. Younger children can join classes with my permission if their parents are my students and are willing to help the children in their learning.   We are looking for a couple or several couples that could come and perform various Latin American dances and give a simple lesson. I cannot help you. We are a school of dance, not a dance performing company. Please contact a dance company that is offering this type of services.   I called you and left a message with my phone number. I never heard back from you. Do you not return phone calls? Please be aware that I do not return long distance calls. Otherwise, my rule is to call the number people leave for me two times and if possible to leave a message. After that I expect you to call again if you are still interested to talk to me. The best way is to tell me when to call you, or just call me when I am most probably available - between 7 and 9 pm on weekdays or before 1 pm on weekends.   My partner cannot come to the next class, so we will skip it. OK? I strongly recommend you to come to the class alone and learn your and your partner's parts. It will be much easier for your couple to continue if you coach your partner before the next class.   My 17 year old daughter and her friend want to go dancing and she has asked me to help her find an appropriate dress. I was wondering if you could give me some pointers on what is appropriate for a ballroom dancing event these days? It depends on where your daughter goes to dance. Different places have different styles from jeans to tuxedos. A moderately fancy dress would be appropriate for almost any situation. Later on your daughter will figure out how to dress accordingly. The dress has to be convenient for her to move freely and not make her to sweat. She should not forget to wear appropriate underwear and shoes to feel comfortable. The shoes especially can make a significant difference. The best advice is however to enjoy dancing and feel relaxed and happy. Then almost any dress will make her look great. Just in case, I give you a few links to ballroom dance places selling dresses, etc. I would not hurry to purchase anything from them before you certainly know that you need their products. www.dance4less.com www.dancevision.com www.ballroomdresses.com www.ballroomdresses-shop.com/HOME.html www.ballroomdancers.com/Directory/Other/view_list.asp?SubCat=101 www.ballroomdesigns.com/ www.apparelsearch.com/retail_ballroom_dance_clothes.htm You can find much more on the internet if you do a search for “ballroom dress”. I hope that your daughter will enjoy ballroom dancing.   There is no time for me to purchase ballroom shoes before the start of the beginner's course. Can I come in the regular shoes? Yes, you can. Please make sure that you feel convenient in your shoes. In fact, you can use them throughout the whole course and be okay. However, good ballroom shoes will make a difference for you in the way how you move and how you feel generally as a dancer. For the intermediate course, I strongly recommend purchasing appropriate ballroom shoes. You will not regret it.   Can you recommend a good movie about ballroom dancing? I would recommend the original version of "Shall We Dance?" made in 1996. It is in Japanese with English subtitles. There is a lot of Japanese cultural coloration there. However, no matter if you like or dislike that part, the people who made this movie knew very well the world of ballroom dance and showed it sincerely and truthfully.   I have a wedding in one week. I never danced before but I want to have a great dance performance with my fiancé. What do you suggest? You would not come to a piano teacher and request that he teaches you to play the Moonlight Sonata in one week if you never played piano before, would you? The same applies to dancing. You have to spend some time to learn how to dance before you can expect any degree of reasonable performance. My suggestion is to forget about a great dance performance and replace it with a great smile. One week is quite enough to master it. After the wedding, please come to my school with your husband and learn to dance. You will be ready for your first anniversary.   I have bought a book on how to dance. Is it a good idea to learn the basics of dancing from the book first and later to come to the school and be better prepared? No, it is not a good idea. I have not seen a single person who could learn dancing from a book. Books on dancing are mostly used as sources of reference, not as text books for self education. If a book promises to teach you without a dance instructor it is as valuable as a book promising to make you a millionaire over night. A somewhat better idea may be to buy an instructional video. However, nothing will replace a qualified dance instructor.   Do you have people switch partners throughout the class so that everyone dances with everyone else or do couples stay together throughout the whole class? Couples stay together throughout the whole course. Switching partners does not help your learning. It is an additional distraction that I am trying to avoid.   If I have provided my email address when I registered for a class will I be on your mailing list? No. Some people are very sensitive to privacy intrusion. You have to ask separately for being on my mailing list. The easiest way to do so is to go to http://www.andresballroom.com/dance/contact.html. Just check the appropriate box. If you are my student I strongly recommend being on my mailing list because it is my main tool of communication with you outside of the ballroom.   I am on your mailing list / I sent you a message from your web page. Why do I not receive messages/responses from you? I am very careful in responding to all messages I receive. If you did not receive a response from me or you did not receive a regular message while you are on my mailing list, it means that something went wrong. Please call me if in doubt. The common problems with email messages are Your mail box is full (you have reached your quota with your internet service provider). Your internet service provider has labeled my message as a junk message and sent it to nowhere (school districts and universities do it to me regularly). mailarmory.com is especially hard on me; if you are with FRII and use mailarmory, chances are you will never see my messages unless you explicitly allow for them. If your domain is unco.edu, colostate.edu, kci.net, rous.net, softhome.net, hotmail.com, iamafreemason.org or af.mil most likely you will never receive an email from me because of the server's "smart" behavior. For example, the basic philosophy of softhome.com is to not allow a message through unless it is sent twice. This is done to "foil spammers". As is explained by softhome.com, "real mail servers simply try again later". Unfortunately, they usually do not. Why should they? You misspelled your email address while typing/writing it for me, or you just wrote it illegibly and I misinterpreted it (it happens quite often). You did not provide me with your email address but expect me to email you (it happens sometimes). I was so sloppy that I mistyped your email address in my data bank (it happens, too, unfortunately). No matter whose mistake it is, please let me know, and we will fix the problem. Please do not assume that I did not respond. It never happens.   Where can I buy music for ballroom dancing? It isn't easy today. During the 1990's the interest in ballroom dancing declined so much that no new good dance orchestras emerged, and the old ones have retired. The popularity of ballroom dancing is rising now. However, it hasn't risen enough to produce new good orchestras on the market yet. Your best shot is to look for old CDs on the internet. Another option is to buy new CDs with the old recordings reprinted. There are a few companies, such as Casa Musica in Germany, that do it. Generally speaking, as I said, contemporary orchestras with some exceptions for ones lead by old-timers (Ross Mitchell in Great Britain, for example) do not have understanding of how to play ballroom music. For this reason, do not buy music without listening to it first, no matter what the web sites tell you. Some good sites where you can listen to the music are: Dance Plus Amazon CD Universe Another way to buy music is to look for recordings of the old orchestras with good reputations. If you buy music played by Hugo Strasser, Günter Noris, Max Greger, Sidney Thompson, or Victor Silvester you will have a good chance of success. Try eBay for those orchestras.   Where can I buy dance shoes? You will not find the shoes you need in warehouse stores. Go to specialized dance stores if you can find ones selling ballroom shoes. You can try A Total Image in Arvada, CO (5610 Lamar St., 303-424-5333). They offer a 10% discount if you tell them that you are from my school (I guess, from any dance school), but your success will depend on the current stock and who you are talking to. The best bet is to talk to the owner. Recently, my students were happy with the internet sites Dance For Less (phone 702-262-7946) and Second Skin Shop (phone 800-906-7546). It may seem crazy to buy shoes on the internet without trying them on, but several people bought shoes there and are satisfied. Just follow advice on the site. Besides, the sites have very moderate prices comparable to other stores. For warm-up use simple tennis shoes. I recommend female shoes for both genders. They are light and may be less expensive. Also, nobody will tell the difference.   Where can I find information about ballroom dance life in Colorado? I recommend you to go to a good search engine on the internet and type in "ballroom dance colorado" or "ballroom dance fort collins". You may find some information there.   I am new to Fort Collins. Could you please advise me on ...? Please go to this link. Everything is changing fast in this country. If you find out that information on this page is outdated, simply is not correct anymore, or you believe that I am missing important information, please let me know. Thank you. Back to School of Ballroom Dance